Wednesday, May 17, 2023

Ode to a childhood home

My wonderful parents recently made the decision to move to a home more suited to their needs, and their home of 49 years officially received its SOLD sign on Saturday morning. 

It's a momentous occasion for our family, and I sat down to moodle on the good karma of this place just over a month ago. Re-reading what I wrote today, I barely had to change a word (but Dad wanted baseball and bunnock games in there, and Mom wanted Ante-I-over somewhere...) 

Ninety-nine twenty-seven,
you've been the meaning of "home"
for almost half a century.

And what a beloved place you have been --
a place of comfort and joy,
of games and fun,
of laughter and tears,
of celebrations and challenges.

Your big old Mayday tree in the backyard
where we set up skipping ropes 
to ferry messages via ice cream pail
from one trunk to the next
(and where I once got stuck),
and your Snoopy and Woodstock playhouse
that Marjorie and Elizabeth 
decorated before we came,
always full of spiders
or neighbourhood boys
that we didn't like.

Your proximity to the school across the street
so early mornings didn't have to be 
quite so early.

The backyard tent 
built over your umbrella clothesline
and the dress-up clothes fashion shows
that entertained us on summer afternoons.

Slinkies walking down your stairs,
"hospital" played in your attic,
a "passion play"
complete with thunder and lightning
(when Jesus died)
enacted by puppets 
behind your basement bar.

Oh, and the school hamster who escaped
(don't panic, DON'T tell Mom!)
and somehow squeezed under it
to be discovered in the corner of a keepsake box,
happily munching a saved school report.

Ping-Pong in your rec room
with Dad, 
who played left-handed
(until we beat him),
card games around your dining table
with all the cousins at Christmas,
and watching The Wonderful World of Disney 
in your living room on Sunday nights.

Piano lessons from a neighbourhood babysitter,
twelve-string guitar songs floating down
from your pink and purple bedrooms,
Study No. 6 ringing through you
over and over and over,
til Mom sighed with pleasure.

One of your rooms full 
(every wall)
of Edmonton Oilers newspaper highlights
painstakingly cut out of
The Edmonton Journal.

Renovations...
and your new family room
full of light.

Baseball and Bunnock games
across your street
and over the schoolyard fence
on which more than one of us
ripped our pants.

The sound of the adding machine
balancing the books for the business,
computer games,
and term papers being typed
in your basement office.

A boarder who didn't stay.

Birthday parties,
youth group gatherings,
graduations, 
and meetings of all kinds.

A first kiss for a future husband
on your front step,
and a wedding's second day party
in your newly built garage.

Campers and trailers 
of various sizes and shapes
parked in your back yard.

New babies
and doting grandparents
building couch cushion forts
for them to crawl through
as they grew.

Your dress up clothes
for another generation,
and costume jewelry besides.

Your huge piles of raked leaves
into which Grandpa
threw his grandchildren
over and over again.

Church music practices
in your front room
once a month
(turn up that bass, Aaron!)

Your Harry Potter party,
complete with costumes
and Grandma's creations --
chocolate marshmallow frogs!

Wild games of ante-I-over
with tennis balls flying over your garage
and leaving marks on your sunroom windows!

Running freshly cut homemade noodles
up and down your stairs
and all over the house
to dry on your beds.

Your much-loved sing songs --
King of the Road 
and Darktown Strutter's Ball
(turn up that bass, Aaron!),
bellowing 'Enery the Eighth I am, I am
or softly singing
Love Can Build a Bridge
with forty of our favourite people
(a few different ones every time).

Lots of splashing in your heated birdbath
and Grandma helping a grandchild
to rescue a bird 
who froze to your chain-link fence
one very cold day.

Surprise kids' art
and handprints
on your walls 
near the treadmill.

Kartoffel und gleis,
chicken noodle soup,
Christmas dinners and Easter suppers.

Playing Christmas game gifts, setting puzzles,
and watching 
Bing, Danny, Rosemary and Vera-Ellen
in White Christmas
every year.

Visiting through your window screen
or sitting around your firepit 
properly distanced
during Covid times.

A little black dog chewing pork bones
or napping
on your back rug
during coffee visits.

The company of so many
friends and relatives, 
and Uncle Fred sleeping
in his favourite bed.

And now it's time,
sad as we are to say goodbye,
for us to let you go
so another family can enjoy you.

Just looking at you,
ninety-nine twenty-seven,
they'll never know
how much good karma
is in your bones 
and in our hearts.

Thanks for the memories!

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